WAS IT SEX OR WAS IT SOMETHING ELSE? WHAT WAS IT?

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See i had a pool party...and me and this boy (WE WERE NOT TOGETHER) and after the pool party and everybody left...we went into the bathroom...i mean things got heated...and we were toching and kissing and everything....i mean we were flirting the whole time and everything...and touching in the pool and stuff..but when we were in the bathroom he..you know fingered me..i guess thats the way to put it...i mean he was takeing his pants off and we were about to you know... but i had to go it was getting late...and he didnt have protection ya know what im sayin...i mean i trust him and all...but idont know was i just scared or something? i mean then when i got home he called me and asked was i ok...i mean what does that mean it felt weird for him 2 call me and say that...but the thing is after all that happen we dont even talk like that anymore i mean we kiss every now and then..but he has a girlfriend and i mean were never going to get together...im just going to leave it at that and im fine with it....but would you consider what we did sex? or it was something else? what would you consider it...