Last night my boyfriend of 3 years and i (we are 26 and 28) got into a huge argument. I told him i wanted to get married. Not right now but in the next few years. We got on this topic while discussing moving in together.i told him my hope was to get married and have kids several years after. He blew up and accused me of giving him an ultimatum, which i never gave. He told me he didnt understand what my thoughts were on the future and that's when i explained this. This isnt the first time anyone has brought up getting married and in fact he has before. He ended up flipping out and i totally dont get it. Can someone help?
To clarify, he said he was mad because I gave him an ultimatum. He asked what I wanted because he said I wasn't being clear and so I told him. I in no way was giving an ultimatum. He said any guy who would fall for what I said was crazy and had no respect for himself.
To clarify, he said he was mad because I gave him an ultimatum. He asked what I wanted because he said I wasn't being clear and so I told him. I in no way was giving an ultimatum. He said any guy who would fall for what I said was crazy and had no respect for himself.