When I first met my workshop instructor, he looked at me for a while, and told me off for not wearing my badge (I forgot.) Then, when he found out I live alone, he acted charming and attentive. He wanted to know lots about me: mostly work and career stuff. He looked at my body, accidentally said the word 'attraction' while making constant eye contact, and tried to get close to fix my computer - but I pulled away! I don't know why, I felt a bit overwhelmed at so much attention so fast. He looked puzzled. A few weeks past and I went to his next workshop - he was talking to a friend and left me standing at the door for ages, ignoring me before he let me in. Then he said, 'oh, what is it you do again?' He didn't look at my body, or pay any attention to me. But then he said I could stay behind to help him. I felt like nothing by this stage so said I had to go home. What happened to him being attentive with me?