Yonna Bonnie
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So a guy ignored me several times when I asked for help last quarter. After I told my other classmate aka his friend (he seems like has a crush on her) that he will help her but he has never helped even when we were team mates. He was always picking on me and was disrespectful. It seems like he think I was his competition or he was looking down on me (he is arrogant).
Well, always he came up and told me today that he "is a good guy" and keep bang this chair with his hands (like he playing the drums) and he didn't really look me in the eyes. This is the first time he hasn't throw joke at me or touch my school supplies or insulted me. He asked how I did on my last project and offered to help me. He didn't notice that I was absent the day before and when I thank him for recommending a magazine. He then offered me his old edition and I told him no thanks, I already brought it.
I am sure my female classmate said something but I am not sure I can trust or he is pulling my leg. I have a history of cutting people out of my life that I can't trust. I think I am about to do that to him but I feel gulit (I don't want hurt people or leaving them "why?").
This is 30 year old master student who talking to me (21 undergrad). I don't know what to do or think?
Well, always he came up and told me today that he "is a good guy" and keep bang this chair with his hands (like he playing the drums) and he didn't really look me in the eyes. This is the first time he hasn't throw joke at me or touch my school supplies or insulted me. He asked how I did on my last project and offered to help me. He didn't notice that I was absent the day before and when I thank him for recommending a magazine. He then offered me his old edition and I told him no thanks, I already brought it.
I am sure my female classmate said something but I am not sure I can trust or he is pulling my leg. I have a history of cutting people out of my life that I can't trust. I think I am about to do that to him but I feel gulit (I don't want hurt people or leaving them "why?").
This is 30 year old master student who talking to me (21 undergrad). I don't know what to do or think?