Wtf was her problem? I knew this girl for 3 years... I was her second bestfriend. We would always talk and do stuff together. She was soooo nice. So... i asked her to be my girlfriend... mistake. (i was her FIRST boyfriend that actually asked her out when he WASNT drunk... lol.. No joke.. i knew the guy that asked her out last and he was drunk when he asked her out and had just got out of juevy... he didnt remember he asked her out until the next day)
Ever since i asked her to be my girlfriend she was playing mind games with me and making plans and then canceling them. She waited til the last minute to cancel so i wouldnt be able to plan anything for the next day.
I was her friend for soooo long and listened to ALL her problems.
Right before i asked her out she was constantly like "wanna hang out" "why wont you ask me to be your girlfriend?" ... and she would go out of her way to talk to me.
All of a sudden when i started wanting to hang out with her, she was always "busy" and canceling plans we made.
Did she does expect to have a boyfriend and NOT see him? Was i a prize she couldnt have and now that she had me she didnt want me?
I just dont understand why... i was her ONLY guy friend who would talk to her during school and she had no problem suddenly becoming a ***** towards me...
She tried to pull the "i cant hang out at the last minute" bullshit yesterday... and i snapped... I said "nvm, i dont wanna hang out or be your boyfriend anymore if you're going to continue to play these mind games... Im gonna go have fun with my OTHER friends and not sit her and wait to be disappointed." She did the same thing 3 times before so i knew she was gonna pull it again.
She only responded with a "ok ttyl" like she didnt even care.
I KNOW she cared at one point because she was crying about me not wanting her right before the relationship started. Also, she was making plans to hang out with me far into the future.. like.. 3+ months into the future.. and all of a sudden started canceling things happening next sunday.
Did she even ever care? Why would she treat me like this? After talking to her for hours and hours and being there for her... how could she be so heartless?
Now i understand why everyone at school doesnt talk to her... She's not really... that... attractive... I mean.. when i liked her i thought she was the most beautiful person in the world... But now that i know how much of a spoiled self centered ***** she is... i honestly dont find her attractive anymore. Thing is... i wasnt attracted to her body (although i never understood why everyone called her unattractive until now) i was attracted to her as a person and wanted to actually talk to her and be with her and not just get in her pants or get her fathers money... if she was poor i wouldnt of minded.
Honestly... i think i just hurt her pride and she needed a leg up so she fucked with me and when she had won she tossed me aside......
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I... i have her birthday present and card right here... her birthday was the 22nd... should i just burn the present and care now? I dont ever plan to talk to her again so....
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Her Background: She's Bipolar(i dont think she is, i just think she wants to say she is so she doesnt have to deal with her emotions like everyone else), Shes rich and spoiled(her dad litterally buys her EVERYTHING and ANYTHING... no joke... she spent an entire english class explaining how many tvs she has in her house and her dad will come home with random girts like.. ENTIRE 3000$ computer systems for her and she'll be like... cool thx dad *tosses aside* and the fact that she got her first car FOR free from her dad and constantly tells everyone how its a 15000 dollar car and taht it was given to her), she thinks way to highly of her self(she has the air that shes better than everyone else), she only has one real girl friend that she hangs out with and they're both total bitches to everyone except for me and couple of girls. (not me anymore)
P.S..... i stopped talking to her for about 7 months, The only reason i started talking to her again was because she fell for the stupid horndog asshole that every school has... and i didnt wanted her getting caught up in the bullshit (he broke up with her 3 days after he asked her out and only asked her out because he was drunk at the time... once again i was there for her in her time of need to help her cope). If i knew she was gonna do this i wouldnt of even spoke to her again... EVER
I didnt wait to ask her out... i just wasnt interested until about a week before i did.
Im only after the reason as to WHY she did this... i honestly HATE her now and i dont want her anymore. I already have another girlfriend who actually wants to be with me, she asked ME out (my other friend i've known for 8 years.. she had a hard break up
Ever since i asked her to be my girlfriend she was playing mind games with me and making plans and then canceling them. She waited til the last minute to cancel so i wouldnt be able to plan anything for the next day.
I was her friend for soooo long and listened to ALL her problems.
Right before i asked her out she was constantly like "wanna hang out" "why wont you ask me to be your girlfriend?" ... and she would go out of her way to talk to me.
All of a sudden when i started wanting to hang out with her, she was always "busy" and canceling plans we made.
Did she does expect to have a boyfriend and NOT see him? Was i a prize she couldnt have and now that she had me she didnt want me?
I just dont understand why... i was her ONLY guy friend who would talk to her during school and she had no problem suddenly becoming a ***** towards me...
She tried to pull the "i cant hang out at the last minute" bullshit yesterday... and i snapped... I said "nvm, i dont wanna hang out or be your boyfriend anymore if you're going to continue to play these mind games... Im gonna go have fun with my OTHER friends and not sit her and wait to be disappointed." She did the same thing 3 times before so i knew she was gonna pull it again.
She only responded with a "ok ttyl" like she didnt even care.
I KNOW she cared at one point because she was crying about me not wanting her right before the relationship started. Also, she was making plans to hang out with me far into the future.. like.. 3+ months into the future.. and all of a sudden started canceling things happening next sunday.
Did she even ever care? Why would she treat me like this? After talking to her for hours and hours and being there for her... how could she be so heartless?
Now i understand why everyone at school doesnt talk to her... She's not really... that... attractive... I mean.. when i liked her i thought she was the most beautiful person in the world... But now that i know how much of a spoiled self centered ***** she is... i honestly dont find her attractive anymore. Thing is... i wasnt attracted to her body (although i never understood why everyone called her unattractive until now) i was attracted to her as a person and wanted to actually talk to her and be with her and not just get in her pants or get her fathers money... if she was poor i wouldnt of minded.
Honestly... i think i just hurt her pride and she needed a leg up so she fucked with me and when she had won she tossed me aside......
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I... i have her birthday present and card right here... her birthday was the 22nd... should i just burn the present and care now? I dont ever plan to talk to her again so....
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Her Background: She's Bipolar(i dont think she is, i just think she wants to say she is so she doesnt have to deal with her emotions like everyone else), Shes rich and spoiled(her dad litterally buys her EVERYTHING and ANYTHING... no joke... she spent an entire english class explaining how many tvs she has in her house and her dad will come home with random girts like.. ENTIRE 3000$ computer systems for her and she'll be like... cool thx dad *tosses aside* and the fact that she got her first car FOR free from her dad and constantly tells everyone how its a 15000 dollar car and taht it was given to her), she thinks way to highly of her self(she has the air that shes better than everyone else), she only has one real girl friend that she hangs out with and they're both total bitches to everyone except for me and couple of girls. (not me anymore)
P.S..... i stopped talking to her for about 7 months, The only reason i started talking to her again was because she fell for the stupid horndog asshole that every school has... and i didnt wanted her getting caught up in the bullshit (he broke up with her 3 days after he asked her out and only asked her out because he was drunk at the time... once again i was there for her in her time of need to help her cope). If i knew she was gonna do this i wouldnt of even spoke to her again... EVER
I didnt wait to ask her out... i just wasnt interested until about a week before i did.
Im only after the reason as to WHY she did this... i honestly HATE her now and i dont want her anymore. I already have another girlfriend who actually wants to be with me, she asked ME out (my other friend i've known for 8 years.. she had a hard break up