...before marriage? I am a 23 years old woman and have always wanted to marry as a virgin. I highly regard virginity as it is a sign of self-control, dignity and respecting one's body. My bf who is now my fiancé always respected my decision and supported me. But few days back, he just blurted out in anger that he has waited enough and wants sex from me like any other normal guy has with his gf. He asked me to stop acting like a nun. He said, we r going to get married in a year. So there is nothing wrong in it. I can understand his frustration, but I dont want to fall in my own eyes. Its a promise which I had made to myself. I think virginity is the best gift u can give to ur hubby. The most interesting element of a marriage is anticipation and expectation which I dont wanna ruin. How can I make him understand this? I am scared that he may cheat on me because of my decision. Its not that I dont let him touch me at all. Cant men practice chastity till marriage like women?
Want to maintain my virginity till marriage but fiance wants to have sex...
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