So i was at a party the other night with some old school friends and saw an ex from when i was a kid, back then we were pretty inseparable. We got talking, dancing, (and drinking) and the next thing I know we're getting a taxi back to my place!
It was amazing (what i can remember anyway). So after about an hour between her legs (if you know what i mean) and her getting her rocks of more than once, she asked me if i had a condom, we were both virgins, we were talking about it in the bar but i was a little taken aback. I asked her if she was sure and she said yes and was enthusiastic about it so i found a condom and got it on, but when we got into position i wasn't 100% hard but after a little work i was hard enough but i had been an hour already so i wasn't to surprised about that although it was a bit embarrassing! So i went to put it in slowly and i barley got the head in before she said it was hurting... now i'm not huge (a bit over 7") but i was surprised al l the same, so after about 50 minutes of trying different positions and me scrambling around for some lube which i had chucked away after a bad breakup, i had only managed get about 3 or 4" in before she said it was hurting to much.
So after her getting extremely embarrassed about this i said it was ok and spent the next half hour between her legs again to make her feel better, before i got to tired and we fell asleep together.
Now if your still reading my question is, do you think this counts as a losing my or rather our virginity's? And should i ask her out on a real date? (she said that she was sort of seeing someone but he doesn't wanna be exclusive or something like that...?)
Any answer will do I'm having a bit of a moral dilemma here!
Oh and Im 18 and so is she if it helps! Thanks in advance!
It was amazing (what i can remember anyway). So after about an hour between her legs (if you know what i mean) and her getting her rocks of more than once, she asked me if i had a condom, we were both virgins, we were talking about it in the bar but i was a little taken aback. I asked her if she was sure and she said yes and was enthusiastic about it so i found a condom and got it on, but when we got into position i wasn't 100% hard but after a little work i was hard enough but i had been an hour already so i wasn't to surprised about that although it was a bit embarrassing! So i went to put it in slowly and i barley got the head in before she said it was hurting... now i'm not huge (a bit over 7") but i was surprised al l the same, so after about 50 minutes of trying different positions and me scrambling around for some lube which i had chucked away after a bad breakup, i had only managed get about 3 or 4" in before she said it was hurting to much.
So after her getting extremely embarrassed about this i said it was ok and spent the next half hour between her legs again to make her feel better, before i got to tired and we fell asleep together.
Now if your still reading my question is, do you think this counts as a losing my or rather our virginity's? And should i ask her out on a real date? (she said that she was sort of seeing someone but he doesn't wanna be exclusive or something like that...?)
Any answer will do I'm having a bit of a moral dilemma here!
Oh and Im 18 and so is she if it helps! Thanks in advance!