Eduard Zcik
New member
...please read all n'PLEASE HELP? Well me and my fiancee will be getting married in 6 months. Last June, my fiancee talked about who she wants as her bridesmaids (4 in total). One of the bridesmaids she wanted is my sister. So she suggested to my sister if she wanted to be one of her bridesmaids and my sister said YES! My sister was very happy and excited. My parents were happy also and soon many of our friends knew that my sister will be a bridesmaid. Lately my fiancee has been telling me how my sister never texts or calls her to ask for help and that she is a little unresponsive. I told her its because my sister is very busy with school and its hard for her. My fiancee says that she wants to replace her with a relative of hers that does actually help out and i told her well you cant since you already told my sister and my fiancee is like "well its up to me to decide since i choose the bridesmaids" I talked with my mom and she said that if she replaces my sister it will kinda shame my sister and will start off both of our families relationships on the wrong foot. I dont know what else to say to my fiancee since she is so stubborn and doesnt realize that replacing my sister can damage our families relationship. PLEASE HELP!!!
I know my sister will be really hurt if she gets replaced and she is MY sister I cant see her hurt is she has not done anything wrong to be replaced!
I know my sister will be really hurt if she gets replaced and she is MY sister I cant see her hurt is she has not done anything wrong to be replaced!