Uncertain about my sexuality and my best friend's?

lion289

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I needed a personal answer to my question, and I tried looking in the archives for a similar answer, but I figured I needed a personal opinion. I have a best friend who I have known for almost four years since high school. I am a guy by the way, and my best friend is a guy also. I would say we are very good friends, however, it feels we are shy sometimes toward each other. Me and him enjoy making jokes and hanging out. However, I have realized that I like my best friend more than a friend. I thought I was straight, but I have also been thinking that I am bi- curious. Since I've had an attraction toward my best friend, I have been unable to tell if my best friend likes me back. There have been signs of intimacy, but somewhat shy. For example, I invited my friend to go on a trip with me, and at night he would cuddle and spoon with me for a minute. When he cuddled with me, I felt secure and comfortable. Later that night, we slept next to each other on the floor, but no sex was involved. Also sometimes my best friend likes to wrap his arm around me for a few seconds, and sometimes whenever me and him sit next to each other on the couch, our legs touch, and none of us bother to move our legs. And very rarely, I would lean my head on his shoulder, and he would bring his arm around me, making it seem like he doesn't mind. Or sometimes he will lean his head on my shoulder which i enjoy. I want to cuddle with him, but it seems like he only does this stuff to me when he's comfortable. Our friendship is very endearing, and I would like to say that I love him, however I don't know if he likes me back more than a friend and if he is bisexual. What I fear also is telling him how I feel. If you someone could answer this back for me, I would appreciate it very much. Please, no offensive comments or answers. Thank you for your time.
 
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