Ugh! I'm 13 and i think im bi-sexual or gay, i don't want to have sex with her. I...

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...want a real relationship.? I don't know what to think.
A week ago i had a crush on a boy, you see. But then me and this girl were playing a game in Gym and i got this feeling in my stomach and it was the "dang-i-like-this-person feeling" and ever since then i can't get her out of my head and i get really self-consious around her and when she smiles i get really happy. I'm more worried about her happiness then my own and i'm totally confused. I think i still like this guy too. i have stronger feelings for her, i think, but they are deeper feelings, with him its like i get kinda jealous of other girls around him but if i had to put both of them next to eachother i would probably chose her! So i don't know. But if i see a hot guy at my school i'll be like dang(: he's hot. But if i see a hot girl at my school all i can think about is this other girl. Soo, i don't know what to think about myself. But i don't want to say im bi-sexual because i dont want people to think im "following the crowd." because i have real feelings for her but she doesnt know. And its not i want to have sex or anything, i REALLY LIKE her. I mean i am worried about how she is doing or if she needs help, or if people are talking to her mean or something. What should i do? How do you know if you are like gay or bi-sexual or not. I just want to have someone care about me. My mom is in jail and my dad is a jerk/achoholic.
 
13? youre too young to know. im sure its just a phase.
is this girl a lez?
if not you have some issues and you should try to forget it as hard as it may be.
im sorry about your parents.
 
13??? shouldn't you be playing and going to malls and such?? isn't it too young to be worried about sexual orientation?
 
i think you are confused.
and in this time in life you have tons of emotions/hormones going crazy.
definitely dont label yourself yet. keep it to yourself until you know for sure...you can still feel the same ways as you do as a friend.
i know youre confused and you dont have parentel support but please darling wait and let yourself figure it out.
 
This is tough. Being gay or bi-sexual or straight isn't a choice. You need to go with what your heart is telling you. You may want to rest on it overnight or for the next few weeks and see what your heart is saying before making any kind of decisions on your sexuality. Sometimes not knowing in the present will lead to finding out the real answers later on in life. Be patient and listen to your inner self. Be concious and let happen whatever happens. Don't try to stop it.

Good Luck to you :)
 
i'd suggest not putting a label on yourself, at least not yet. at your age people tend to be kind of unsure about these things. from what you've said i'd guess you are bisexual, but only you can know for sure.

as for a relationship, if you want someone to care about, i'd suggest sticking to friends, at least for a while until you sort out all this.
 
honestly it just sounds like ur young and u dont really know whats going on. ur hormones are making u go crazy, u have all these feelings and you arent sure what to make of them. i dont think i can help, but time will tell. just wait it out, you may like girls, or maybe u just need some more time to develope
 
honestly it just sounds like ur young and u dont really know whats going on. ur hormones are making u go crazy, u have all these feelings and you arent sure what to make of them. i dont think i can help, but time will tell. just wait it out, you may like girls, or maybe u just need some more time to develope
 
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