Ugh guy issues.......this sucks.?

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so like my boyfriend is really sweet when its the two of us and like we don't have sex but we do touch each other and stuff. so i went on a double date with him and his best friend and his best friend's girlfriend. So like his bff and his bff girlfriend were making out like the whole time. I really didnt want too and he did and he kept pressuring me and it looked like he did it to look cool. Then i found out he told our private life to his best friend! i am furious. He promised not to tell anyone. I didn't tell anyone. He acted so different it was weird. I am 17 and he is 18.what do i do?what do i do?
 
then if i was in your position i will dump his ass...cuz if you want a guy to do that then keep datin him if you dont look for another guy cuz you are still young and there are plenty of guys out there for you...but you should really think about it.....
 
for an 18 year old, he seems pretty immature.if he promised not to tell anyone about what you two have done sexually, he shouldn't have told anyone. make sure you let him know that this upsets you or somethingtalk to him.if that doesn't work, and this boyfriend is really making you that "furious", then break up with him. i'm sure you can find someone who will keep their promises and treat you rightgood luck
 
dump him..he's not worth your time. If he's gonna sit there and lie to you about what he said..think of what ele he's lied about. and if he was doing it to just look cool...that means he's not being real to you...not being himself. ya ima guy...i know how we work though..NOT GAY!!!! just lettin you know what i think...ive had girls does the same to me...i peaced out after i figured it out to...haha
 
you shouldn't let him pressure you into anything. guys loveee to show off to there friends, and its not uncommon for him to tell his best friend you aren't having sex. i'm sure they talk about that a lot. you should be mad at him though. you need to let him know that you don't like him talking about your private life with anyone other than you. And make sure you let him know that he acts different when hes with his friends. if he doesn't understand where your coming from maybe its time to move on.
 
May be you went with the wrong guys,,, and you are just 17,, cant you feel it takes too much to manage all those things,,,,Do what your mind says ok,,,
 
babe really, i wouldn't overeact about this too much. your BF's Bff and his GF are probably very open ppl who aren't adverse to PDA. if you're not comfortable with it, you need to tell him. also i wouldn't worry about him tellin his mates about your personal life. guys do it because theyre proud of you and what you guys do together and they wanna tell the whole world. you're lucky he only told his best mate tho and not the whole world. if he was doin that then id talk to him and explain you want your private life kept private. nywy, i reckon dont worry about it too much. dont worry abotu wat other ppl think. its just the two of u n ur relly lucky to have that so dont take it for granted by comlainin about little things like this. hope you get it worked out.
 
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