My self esteem has def taken a shot been messaging this guy on and off on dating site for a few weeks we finally arranged a meet up.We talked for a few minutes then he had to leave went a few days without hearing from him.Then I finally texted him asking him if he wanted to hook up he turned it down Ive never been turned down for an intimate encounter.I just got out of a serious relationship 4 years wanted to have a little fun.I'm just trying to understand did he find me not attractive are something he told me how hot was online then meets IRL he gives me the cold shoulder.I