For3ver y0unG
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Ok. Im 22 y.o male. I am having very bad probs with sex. It might seem funny to people. But its damaging me psychologically very badly. To like..the point of suicide for real. Like..how can a young healthy man have so much trouble with sex. I have only been with one girl my whole life. Never tried with any previous women. I was always too scared to be honest. I lost my virginity at 21 with my gf. So I have only been sexually active for a very recent time. The problem is I just cant do it. Like..I cant get it up if you know what I mean. I have been successful at it. But only a few times. Like 5 times. Its bad. I have been to a doctor for like ED and stuff. Been checked. I have no probs physically. I even tried Levitra. Which is like Viagra. It doesnt work. I dont do drugs or anything like that..so nothing like that is effecting me. I have always had low self esteem and thought I am not good enough..or big enough. The doctor I went to said I suffer from "perfomance anxiety". Which is very true. Im always nervous right before it happens. The girl I was with was older. Shes 29. And far more experienced. So I feel I cant compete in any area. With size or performance. But we did love each other very very much. And still do. So there is patience between us. And we still try. But it never happens. Never. This has been going on for a long time too.And after a while..we have just stopped trying. I have no clue what to do. Im very attracted to her as well. So idk why I cant seem to do it. Or how to overcome this. But it is affecting me very badly. I dont know what to do. Ive tried everything. Sorry to put my business out like that and the long story but..I just really at this point dont know what to do. Does anyone have any advice or help ?? Please.