Today Is The Big Day

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Today is the big day...I am excited but so nervous. The w/d's are getting a bit better...still have major muscle twitches...nauseau and feelings of blah. I was up late last night finishing up some paperwork for work. Now I am up early to face my day......trying to feel just okay. Last night was so tough for me...I wanted to pick up and use.....just one last time. I have been 6 days now clean and sober and it doesn't seem as if it is getting easier. I do know I need to take it time for my body to heal and my heart to heal.

I was supposed to stay at my boyfriend's last night...but he told me to leave. I was spending too much time on work and not enough on him. I have lied, cheated, and stole drugs from him. I love him....but I have to work on me and our relationship right now is toxic. I spent the weekend listening to how much I had hurt him and I take full responsibility for it...but I felt like when I was a child gettting lectured by my dad. But the sad thing is I really felt I deserved it. My cognitive side of my brain knows better....but I am an addict and that part of my brain is not there right now. I do not feel worthy right now to be treated gentle.

I am 46 year old grandmother and I need to stay sober for me so I can be a great grandmother....aunt......sister...daughter...friend. I do have great frienRAB and one of them is bringing me today to rehab. I so hope soon to find happiness within myself and so the steps after rehab to stay clean.

I will be posting on here when I return. I am not sure what my computer priviledges will be when I get there.

Take care and thanks for your support.

Judy
 
Hi jacritch

I hope it all goes well/smoothly for you. You're taking the most important step of your life so far - and it is the best step you'll ever take. Your old life awaits you with open arms. You just have to keep the things that matter to you close to heart & your thoughts (partner, kiRAB, grandkiRAB) & use this as your motivation. Im not saying it'll be easy - i am saying its worth it - because YOU are worth it.

It gets better - believe me.

i wish you all the very best - take care & keep on keepin on.
 
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