A few weeks ago, I wrote an article titled Stop Being a People Pleaser that sparked a huge discussion based on a comment by someone who is not naturally inclined to feel like making other people happy. Here was his initial question: I'd love to see an article taking the opposite position: How do I start pleasing other people and caring about their needs? I'm kind of a cynical, misanthropic [jerk] and apparently that's not OK in most lines of business. Do I change, or do I find a new line of work? More »