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yahmileb
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Hello everyone, I have a question, this is my current situation
Do you think is wrong to be attracted to a relative? in my case my uncle, he is 32 years old and I'm 29. We live faraway from eachother... so nothing happend yet.
Here is the history... we knew eachother when we were kids, we saw eachother rarely but we were good buddies, then when i was around 10 i moved to another country and up until now to got in contact again and then we chat alot and talk alot and well we kinda felt for eachother.
In this case would it be so wrong to love my uncle and perhaps have a relationship with him and maybe eventually sex?
His mom and my grandmother are half sisters (mother side), we didnt grew up together, we were like strangers until we came across eacother again by internet.
I'm very confused because somehow i think is wrong because of the fact he is my uncle.... but at the sametime i feel something very special..... I seek for advise not for judgement, please... a went to see 2 psys and they both game me two different answers so that didnt help much.... I tried to distance myself from him but i miss him, i feel like high school sweet heart love, you know, pure , innocent, longing to see him..... all this because in few months ill go in vacations with my family to our country and ill see him....so i want to be prepared.
Some tell me is not s sin, that I should look for my hapiness, but then others say is wrong and I \shouldnt allow it to happen.
We confided or problem to few people in the family disgissing the fact we were talking about us, and also the opinion is divided, so think is nothing wrong and other that is completely wrong...
what do you think?
Thank you
Yah
Do you think is wrong to be attracted to a relative? in my case my uncle, he is 32 years old and I'm 29. We live faraway from eachother... so nothing happend yet.
Here is the history... we knew eachother when we were kids, we saw eachother rarely but we were good buddies, then when i was around 10 i moved to another country and up until now to got in contact again and then we chat alot and talk alot and well we kinda felt for eachother.
In this case would it be so wrong to love my uncle and perhaps have a relationship with him and maybe eventually sex?
His mom and my grandmother are half sisters (mother side), we didnt grew up together, we were like strangers until we came across eacother again by internet.
I'm very confused because somehow i think is wrong because of the fact he is my uncle.... but at the sametime i feel something very special..... I seek for advise not for judgement, please... a went to see 2 psys and they both game me two different answers so that didnt help much.... I tried to distance myself from him but i miss him, i feel like high school sweet heart love, you know, pure , innocent, longing to see him..... all this because in few months ill go in vacations with my family to our country and ill see him....so i want to be prepared.
Some tell me is not s sin, that I should look for my hapiness, but then others say is wrong and I \shouldnt allow it to happen.
We confided or problem to few people in the family disgissing the fact we were talking about us, and also the opinion is divided, so think is nothing wrong and other that is completely wrong...
what do you think?
Thank you
Yah