To all Christians, is soft swinging between married couples a sin? Why or why not?

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Clarom087

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the soft swinging i am talking about is that a "married" couple would have sex in front of another "married" couple but no penetration, including foreplay and oral sex, with anyone other than your own partner. I think I can compare this like a married couple watching porn, which i think is not a sin. The only difference is that this is "real" Please give me some precise answers tnx
remember, "no penetration, including foreplay and oral sex, with anyone other than your own partner."
 
I'm not entirely sure..
Whether it's a sin or not, I just don't think it's advisable. Even though you're not really cheating on your spouse because you're both there that could start feelings of jealousy that could eventually lead to the downfall of your marriage.
Abstain from all appearance of evil! If in doubt, just don't do it.
 
Are you serious? You would be the only 'Christian' couple in the room then. It's Lust...I don't understand why you wouldn't be jealous with other men lusting your wife? In the heat of the moment, who knows what would happen?
 
It may feel good at the time , but think about the long term. Well there's all kinds of diseases. Protection doesn't garuntee you won't get something. Also, it is using people for your own pleasure. I don't think that it is a good thing because it also creates soul ties with those people.
 
i think your question is the answer. if you have to ask if it's wrong because you can't discern it from right and wrong then it's wrong. i think it would be considered sinful, not something which would be accepted among christians.
 
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