elizabeth2010: It sounds like perimenopause. Get Dr. John Lee's book "what your doctor won't tell you about menopause" and he's got one on premenopause too. They're a woman's bible for menopause. I was just telling another woman on another board to look up Estrogen Dominance. It's all in Dr. Lee's book. There are around 40 symptoms/side effects of it. Estrogen loves fat! That's why women gain weight in perimenopause because the body is getting ready for the CHANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
See if you can get to an endocrinologist and get your hormones checked. If they come back as being "ok" then still get some progesterone cream and use it at night before you go to bed. I found out I was having anovulatory cycles and my ovaries were shutting down and not making progesterone, the calming hormone.
The migraines come right in line with what happened to me. I started having epileptic seizures 5 years ago because of all this "mental-pause"!!!! Migraine sufferers are routinely prescribed seizure meds to control the migraines. It's all hormonal in my book.
We live in a toxic world - look up xenoestrogens and phytoestrogens - you'll be amazed at what you learn. The beef we eat is loaded with hormones!!!!!!!!!!! We don't need anymore.
Get your vitamin levels checked and try to take some magnesium for the migraines too.
If you're a coffee drinker, magnesium is depleted in the body by the caffeine.
Keep track of these migraines on a calendar and see if they come before, during and after your menstrual cycle. Also make note of whether they're worse around the new and full moons.
Are you exposed to chemicals? I've become very sensitive to smells, cigarettes, perfume, wood smoke, cleaning chemicals, bleach, to name a few. Are you around fluorescent lights? Are you under stress, not getting enough sleep, around alot of EMF's (cell phones, cordless phones, computers, TV, electronics)? They're all toxic to our bodies.
I hope I gave you a place to start looking. Ask me more questions if you want to. I'm here for you. You might want to put your question over on the menopause board and see what else people have to say.