JellyInMyBelly
New member
I'm peeved off. I'm peeved off with those who cover up their fears -in this case, of death, by overly pressing points of view. Today, after hearing the news of that German singer who slept around with men after being diagnosed with HIV at the age of 17...is now 28 and one of the 3 men she slept with is AiDS positive. A person I was talking with then said people should FEAR AIDS and probably rethink their lax ways re sex before marriage. (Mind you, this person is married 40 years). What bugs me is that in their life, they fear alot and do all they can to somewhat 'avoid dying.' They are quite fearful in general too. Personally, I lived that no sex before marriage thinking, but under teh pretense of much fear and lack of understanding. It's left me very fearful of getting into relationships and being quite 'childish' about love relationships. I have never been in a relationship even at the age of 28. I've been approached by many men in my past, but somehow, when sex quickly or sooner or later becomes an issue, I'm 'childish' and avoid. Anyway, I feel that people will continue to have sex outside of marriage even after this report. I think a more prudent approach is to be wise and know who you're sleeping with. What's sad is that people lie and even your own hubby could lie or contract it if in an affair, but hey, this is the world we live in. You can be wise. Fearful is too much.