...cancelled plans with them ? Well yesterday my one mate asked if I fancied going for a pint tonite with him I said yes to him by text then I checked my bank balance and I had less money then I thought I did anyways my co worker asked if I fancied going to see a show i told him I hadn't got the money so he said "I will lend ya the money to come and just pay us back on payday" so I said yeah then I got a text of my one mate asking if we were still on for tonite so I just said "sorry bud I hadn't got the money we have to go another time" then he replied "I will buy you a few" so I put back " cheers for the offer mate but I would rather have my own money be more off a laugh lol" so he just said ok mate no worries. So I just got back from the show and I just checked my face book and one of me other mates who was coming for a pint with me and my other mate put "thanks for letting us down mate your under the thumb ain't ya lol" and another mate commented saying "from what I've heard that's not where he likes her thumb"???? Well it's like this I'm just into a new relationship and now I'm thinking they think I dropped them to go and see my mrs even thow I didn't cause she is at work tonite I can't say I dropped them to go and see a show cause they will be pissed with me even thow uv lent the money. Am I worrying over nothing plus what should I comment on my facebook wall post of my mate should I like it as well, what's your view on this