hey everybody! my name is katie, I've been inlove and involved with this guy for about 6 months now, he says he loves me too but he said he doesn't at the same time, what the heck does that mean? we aren't dating or anything, I know I sound bad when I say this but, we have been sleeping together for quite awhile, I really do love him more then anything I know I do, but now he says he likes having sex with other women and I know he has been with other people while i've been with him, like i know we aren't dating but it still bothers me i am very jealous and I have told him that, also when we first started sleeping together he told me i was the only one he wanted and said such nice things to me and treated me like a princess now he changes his story to he wants other girls, i would never go for other guys while being with him dating or not that isn't cool. but whenever we have sex I always make him wear a condom though!! it tares me apart knowing i'm not the only girl I know we aren't dating but he doesn't want to because he says he needs to find his "inner self", then he confessed that it's because he is still in love with his ex girlfriend and will always love her. I don't know what to do I love him so much. I want to help him out but i don't know what to say or what to do hes just lost and confused it seems. please help any suggestions, ideas that may help? please and thank you