this is no joke but my wife left me for a younger guy 6 months ago and now she is

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having his baby,but my ? problem is that every night even tho ive only seen his pic on facebook i have nightmares about really hurting this guy really bad,,im afraid to sleep at night coz all i dream about is this guy and it pisses me off ,is my nightmares telling me to go after this guy or wot coz its starting to convince me that i should go after him,,its starting to scare me now
 
Definitely seek therapy...in the mean time...let her go. It' s time to move on...go out with your friends; get involved in a hobby; do something for yourself and build your life back.

Remember, doing well is the best revenge...show her that you are better than okay without her.
 
You need to understand that you have to move on. DIVORCE her and go on with your life.
 
As much as you would love to hurt this guy, it is NOT at all worth your time. I mean, yes it hurts that she left you but there are SO many other women out there that can treat you right. Live life as you did when you weren't married. Be happy and go out and have some fun. Hang out more with your friends. Chill out at home and watch football games with the guys. Relax more. This guy is just a waste of your time and he is NOT worth the crap your gonna get into if you do go after him. Your wife may be happy with him now, but sure enough she may leave him or even more believable, he will leave her for either an older woman or younger woman. Let your wife go and divorce her ASAP. You will be happier with someone else. Someone who will treat you the way you need to be treated. And do the same in return. Be happy with someone else instead of staying sad in a relationship that may never happen again. and please...dont even think about giving her another chance...
 
You're obsessed.

You're obviously not over your failed relationship. I bet it hurts. And it sucks. And the only thing that is going to make you feel any better is time.

You need to deal with your anger and pain from your failed relationship and stop fixating on your ex-wife & her new relationship. There's nothing to be gained there.

I would try doing pleasant things before bed maybe to distract yourself? I take it you're not seeing anyone new... maybe recall past girlfriends who weren't her? Watch good things on TV, buzz out on the computer, play video games... something to take your mind off the situation. Basically occupy your mind with something else before going to sleep.
 
if you have the money see a shrink it will make you feel better, i dream about killing my husbands girlfriend and she is not worth going to jail for i know i will get caught .. she will just die but i will live in jail for a super duper long time..
 
How about getting some counseling?? You ending up in jail is not worth killing some guy. It's okay to feel like hurting someone but please remember everything is replaceable but your own LIFE. Good Luck.
 
Its your emotions getting the better of you. My neighbor went through this when his wife left him, he kept thinking she was with another guy and so on and wanted to find him too, but in the end she wasn't. He ended up finding someone else who was better for him. Usually when you have time on your hands, it gives you more reason to start thinking. Try keeping busy with hobbies, or going out with friends.
 
sorry to say this hunni but its not all the mans fault ur wife had to play a part in it ????u mite not like to think it but its true . u just need to get on with ur life and forget the lot of them . and if all else fails get sum profesional help !
 
to me your nightmares are telling that this is what you really want to do and this is what your feeling i do believe that's what your nightmares are trying to tell you but in reality don't do anything to this guy just stay as far away from him as you can cause i do believe that it's your anger that is making you feel this way
 
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