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...one i can say this to? i cant talk to anyone. i have too many problems and honestly, no one can help me. no one knows me better than i know myself so only i can make my own decisions and help myself. but i'm feeling so hopeless now and i dont know what to do and i dont knwo whats good for me and whats bad for me. i can ttlak to a counselor or my friends. my counselor is too pushy and frustrating. my friends dont want to hear about my problems because it makes them feel uncomfortable and some think i just want attention. but i honestly just want help. and i cant even get that from my friends or anyone else. i just have to go back to myself but even i dont have all the answers. i dont know what to do now
 
make a list of your problems and tackle them one at a time.
it does sound like you need to speak with someone. can you talk to a counselor outside of school? maybe at your community center or your church's priest?
 
I used to find it was very helpful to just write in a journal. Write in it everytime you feel as if there is something you need to say. After a few weeks, go back into that journal and read what you wrote. Sometimes you might be surprised at how upset you were at something that probably wasn't even that big of a deal. It helped me grow a lot to know that I shouldn't be as upset over things, and that a lot of things there is nothing you can do about.

And on another note, if your 'friends' don't want to hear what you have to say because you are just 'looking for attention', shame on them. REAL friends would want to listen whether or not you were just being overdramatic. Perhaps you should go out and try to find some better friends who will respect you and your feelings.

I hope all works out for you. I know I was in that predicament a while ago.
 
You need to talk to someone, whether it is a good friend or a family member. I have tried keeping stuff to myself and not letting anyone in on what's going on and it just ends up eating you up inside and out. If you don't talk to people you might just be pushing them away. And your friends might feel akward because they are going through similar things. Find a really good friend to talk to , you will get no satisfaction if you don't. It always helps to talk, don't keep things to yourself because you will regret it.
 
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