My other female teammate said I should ask this other team member for help. I told her straight that he helped her but he has never helped me when I asked him (more than 3 times during last quarter). I was also very confidence in reading his behavior patterns. He helped people when he can benefit but every time I ask him, he ignored me and my emails. I learned that I couldn't trust or depend on him.
However, today he came up to me and asked if I understand the last project and I said not really. He then offered to help me and said "He is a good guy." and keep on banging on his chair like right between his crotch.
This is very out of character. I think my female classmate said something to him. I still don't trust him and hate to get ignored again. Can you give me some perspective and should I trust this guy?
To me, I felt he never respected me bc I am an undergrad.
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I had a teammate last quarter who was very arrogant and also intelligent. He is an international master student with work experience and an MBA and a Master. Anyways, I expressed that I wasn't really happy that I have him as my teammate again this quarter. He was always very sarcastic but after he I expressed that I should have not changed my class to be in the class as him.
He came off very rudely said that he felt that he did a lot more work than I did last quarter and that I am going to need to do more this quarter. I was very upset bc I did a lot of work too. I am not skills as finance and so I did other writing and assignments (I am undergrad). My team ended up making me fake CEO of the company for our final proposal. I told him that I felt that he was a control freak. He just laugh but didn't say anything.
He was still rude and like to close my laptop when I am using it and then provoked me in our team meeting by asking me to take on the first assignment. There are 5 team members and we end up each giving our own input by email yet he never did.
However, today he came up to me and asked if I understand the last project and I said not really. He then offered to help me and said "He is a good guy." and keep on banging on his chair like right between his crotch.
This is very out of character. I think my female classmate said something to him. I still don't trust him and hate to get ignored again. Can you give me some perspective and should I trust this guy?
To me, I felt he never respected me bc I am an undergrad.
BACKGROUND BELOW- WELCOME TO READ OR NOT TO READ
I had a teammate last quarter who was very arrogant and also intelligent. He is an international master student with work experience and an MBA and a Master. Anyways, I expressed that I wasn't really happy that I have him as my teammate again this quarter. He was always very sarcastic but after he I expressed that I should have not changed my class to be in the class as him.
He came off very rudely said that he felt that he did a lot more work than I did last quarter and that I am going to need to do more this quarter. I was very upset bc I did a lot of work too. I am not skills as finance and so I did other writing and assignments (I am undergrad). My team ended up making me fake CEO of the company for our final proposal. I told him that I felt that he was a control freak. He just laugh but didn't say anything.
He was still rude and like to close my laptop when I am using it and then provoked me in our team meeting by asking me to take on the first assignment. There are 5 team members and we end up each giving our own input by email yet he never did.