...talked to me since!!!? So, I had a huge crush on this guy, I mean.... it was pretty big. And half way through the year he found out about it. He had a huge crush on this other girl however and would always talk to me about how much he loved her and would lament about how he could never have her because she was taken by someone else.
Well, low and behold she broke up with her BF and her and my crush started a summer fling. The summer we all left to different colleges. After they started this fling i thought that I had absolutely NO CHANCE.
Until one mysterious day he called me up, about a week before he left for college, two weeks before I left. He asked me on a sort of date, which I wasn't really thinking much about at the time. We were pretty good friends, I just thought he wanted to hang out one last time before we left.
However, this was not all he wanted to do. He proceeded to tell me on this date that he regretted never pursuing things with me this year... and he regretted pursuing things with the other girl. I guess they broke up and it wasn't pretty. After we talked, flirted, hung out for a long time, he took me to the park and we cuddled then kissed underneathe the stars. It was so perfect. Almost too perfect.
Because the next day he cancelled the plans we had had to see a movie, and he told me that he wouldn't be able to see me again, and probably wouldn't for a very long time. It was a complete shock. It immobilized me and broke my heart! A few weeks later he felt bad about what he did and simply sent me an apologetic text, but nothing more.
To this day, I have no idea what he's thinking, feeling, and I have no idea what to do? I can't tell him how I feel because he's so far away, and I'm too scared to call him. I know texting wouldn't cut it. Do you think he really liked me? And if he did, why did he just leave like that without talking to me? I'm so hurt and confused and I think about it everyday when I shouldn't. It interferes with my classes and has caused my first month at college to be almost unbearable. Please, please help me
Well, low and behold she broke up with her BF and her and my crush started a summer fling. The summer we all left to different colleges. After they started this fling i thought that I had absolutely NO CHANCE.
Until one mysterious day he called me up, about a week before he left for college, two weeks before I left. He asked me on a sort of date, which I wasn't really thinking much about at the time. We were pretty good friends, I just thought he wanted to hang out one last time before we left.
However, this was not all he wanted to do. He proceeded to tell me on this date that he regretted never pursuing things with me this year... and he regretted pursuing things with the other girl. I guess they broke up and it wasn't pretty. After we talked, flirted, hung out for a long time, he took me to the park and we cuddled then kissed underneathe the stars. It was so perfect. Almost too perfect.
Because the next day he cancelled the plans we had had to see a movie, and he told me that he wouldn't be able to see me again, and probably wouldn't for a very long time. It was a complete shock. It immobilized me and broke my heart! A few weeks later he felt bad about what he did and simply sent me an apologetic text, but nothing more.
To this day, I have no idea what he's thinking, feeling, and I have no idea what to do? I can't tell him how I feel because he's so far away, and I'm too scared to call him. I know texting wouldn't cut it. Do you think he really liked me? And if he did, why did he just leave like that without talking to me? I'm so hurt and confused and I think about it everyday when I shouldn't. It interferes with my classes and has caused my first month at college to be almost unbearable. Please, please help me