there is a guy i go to school with that i'm interested in, but he has a girlfriend. i dont really want to be involved at all, so ive stayed out of it and pretty neutral. he has had a few parties in the last weekend and he texted me tonight "are you coming?" to his party. i figured he texted me other girlfriend too, but he didnt, since she was texting me to figure out what i was doing.
the thing is though, he is a very flirtatious guy. i can't tell if he flirts with me or just anybody. he is very talkative and outgoing, so his personality gets along with almost anyone. he no doubt loves his girlfriend because shes coming to visit in 2 weeks, but tonight, he kept saying "no you are sleeping here. you are not okay to drive." meanwhile, i probably wasn't at the time, so i waited. by the time i was okay to drive, he still really wouldn't let me, and said that he was probably gonna end up sleeping out on the couches too tonight, which is where id be passing out if i stayed. so eventually everyone left but me because i wasn't able to drive according to him, and even though there were 2 open couches, he picked the seat next to me on the couch. there was no touching, no over the top flirting either. but when i was talking to him for a while, and i looked up, he and his other guy friends in the room at the party were making "vagina" symbols out of their hands. they didnt hide them either whenever i noticed. this happened two times, but of which were after speaking to me.
what do you think?
when i say school i mean "grad school"
the thing is though, he is a very flirtatious guy. i can't tell if he flirts with me or just anybody. he is very talkative and outgoing, so his personality gets along with almost anyone. he no doubt loves his girlfriend because shes coming to visit in 2 weeks, but tonight, he kept saying "no you are sleeping here. you are not okay to drive." meanwhile, i probably wasn't at the time, so i waited. by the time i was okay to drive, he still really wouldn't let me, and said that he was probably gonna end up sleeping out on the couches too tonight, which is where id be passing out if i stayed. so eventually everyone left but me because i wasn't able to drive according to him, and even though there were 2 open couches, he picked the seat next to me on the couch. there was no touching, no over the top flirting either. but when i was talking to him for a while, and i looked up, he and his other guy friends in the room at the party were making "vagina" symbols out of their hands. they didnt hide them either whenever i noticed. this happened two times, but of which were after speaking to me.
what do you think?
when i say school i mean "grad school"