That could/would have happened if she had one kid or 12, so the number of kids is irrelevant. *I* personally HAVE five children (boys even, gods help me maintain some sanity lol) I did not have five children by accident, so telling me to get birth control is moronic. I CHOSE to have five children. I don't expect anyone else to cop any shit for my choice though, so I choose to work a night shift job so that having to take a day for kid related reasons is rare. Thankfully I have a job where I sleep at work (yes sanctioned by the employers hehehe 