Things are weird between me and my friend because of her boyfriend...?

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raychel

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Hi, so recently my friends got in a relationship with this really nice guy.
But between us, things have changed. For a while she wouldn't speak to me because I said I had chatted with him on facebook, then whenever i go to the city, (which is where he lives) she gets all pissy when I don't include her.
Whenever we go out, he's there, and i'm completely dumped! If she asks me to go out, I know its not to be with me, it's to see him, but her parents don't want her to be by herself with him, or something like that...so i'm just a third wheel.
And we're just not close anymore, I have no idea whats going on with her because she's been so private lately.
It's just bugging me..so what should i do?
How can we be better friends again?
And what in the meantime can i do to not feel so lonely?
Thanks for any help.
 
This can be a hard situation to deal with. You better have a serious chat with your friend and talk about herpriorities. Invite her out for a day - do some shopping or catch a movie or something girly, to remind her that you guys are still friends. Then tell her how you feel - don't be afraid to be honest and let her know that you feel left out, and she's really hurting you. Remember that guys come and go, but you're supposed to treat your friends like they'll always stay.
 
reading between the lines u dont sound as close friends as u wood like 2 think u r !! It sounds as if she is using u as a cover if her parents dont want her 2 b wiv him ??u also say she gets private ?? close friends dont do that they tell each other everythin an u go on 2 say u go to the city wivout her ??? so do u av other friends or secretly do u fancy this guy yourself ????? if i were u i wood stand back an let em get on wiv it an if an when it goes pear shaped u will b there 4 your friend ? or her fella ?
 
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