I've been a passenger since I've been potty trained and knew how to hold on... and I'm a darn good passenger IMHO. I've never learned how to drive one though (not sure why). I've been told (in addition to taking the safety courses) that I should learn on a cafe style 250, rather than something like a Rebel 250. Don't remember now why, considering I ultimately wanted to ride a cruiser. They even said that a 500 cafe would be ok too, because I wouldn't grow out of it as quickly. After discussing my desire to ride with my fiancé (who is not an experienced rider, but wants to be as well), he believes it would be best for me to learn on a dirt bike, in a nice soft field, or some dirt trail somewhere. Personally, I've been afraid of riding anything on a dirt trail... even a bicycle. I also believe that you should learn on the medium that you ultimately want to ride on. Maybe I'm wrong. Any thoughts? Should I follow his wishes, and learn on dirt first? Please help us resolve this disagreement!