should I do? So I've been going to this YMCA since around November. The first day I went there, I had just had outpatient surgery that morning and looked like shiz in some sweats. The front desk guy made a point to talk to me for a long time and was all over me, but I just brushed it off as being nice at first until my mom said he definitely liked me.
He usually works the mornings and I only can come on evenings, so I only get to see him once or twice a week. But here's some examples of stuff he does around me:
1. Asked only me, out of 12 others on the treadmill, if it was ok if he cleaned. Then bowed and thanked me when he was done. (lol)
2. Tells me how much he loves seeing me whenever I come and always shakes me hand (too shy to hug?)
3. Asked me if I knew where something in the gym was that I was looking for. I said "yes," but he told me to hold on a minute. He answered the phone, then escorted me literally around the corner to the machine I was looking for.
4. I came in the other day and there was a guy needing a gym tour, and 2 guys waiting to sign papers. He stopped everything he was doing just to sign me in, then talked to me for about 20 mins (the other guys were amused, lol)
5. I had to do a project where I observed children for sociology class, and I did it there at the daycare. I told him I felt like such a creeper, and he said at least three times "you are definitely NOT a creeper. you don't look like one at all" and smiled.
Problem is...I have a bad past and I might be too much of a bad girl, although i've settled down some. He is about 6'5", blonde hair, super cute, Conservative Christian and 28 y.o.. I am 5'9", brown hair, fairly attractive, and 19 years old. I kinda have a body that makes you wanna sin, so maybe thats why he wants me, haha. I am Methodist...but I rarely attend church and drink/party on occasion. He is actually the director of the Christian group at the large univesity I attend when he's not at the gym.
He obviously likes me, but is too shy to ask me out. And I'm afraid he won't like me because i'm not "pure" enough. But he's so cute and nice that I would love to date him. What should I do?
He usually works the mornings and I only can come on evenings, so I only get to see him once or twice a week. But here's some examples of stuff he does around me:
1. Asked only me, out of 12 others on the treadmill, if it was ok if he cleaned. Then bowed and thanked me when he was done. (lol)
2. Tells me how much he loves seeing me whenever I come and always shakes me hand (too shy to hug?)
3. Asked me if I knew where something in the gym was that I was looking for. I said "yes," but he told me to hold on a minute. He answered the phone, then escorted me literally around the corner to the machine I was looking for.
4. I came in the other day and there was a guy needing a gym tour, and 2 guys waiting to sign papers. He stopped everything he was doing just to sign me in, then talked to me for about 20 mins (the other guys were amused, lol)
5. I had to do a project where I observed children for sociology class, and I did it there at the daycare. I told him I felt like such a creeper, and he said at least three times "you are definitely NOT a creeper. you don't look like one at all" and smiled.
Problem is...I have a bad past and I might be too much of a bad girl, although i've settled down some. He is about 6'5", blonde hair, super cute, Conservative Christian and 28 y.o.. I am 5'9", brown hair, fairly attractive, and 19 years old. I kinda have a body that makes you wanna sin, so maybe thats why he wants me, haha. I am Methodist...but I rarely attend church and drink/party on occasion. He is actually the director of the Christian group at the large univesity I attend when he's not at the gym.
He obviously likes me, but is too shy to ask me out. And I'm afraid he won't like me because i'm not "pure" enough. But he's so cute and nice that I would love to date him. What should I do?