...person? Or do you just tell? the other person that you have deep feelings for them so they will have sex with you. I guess what I am asking is: Is ever Ok to just have sex because you are horny? Do you feel you are just using the other person so you can get off? Can you just break up with someone after having sex without feeling like a cold nasty person?
I think grown ups have the same problems with this too. I heard my oldest sister sobbing in her room because she had had a One night stand with a guy who dumped her the next day. She really liked him and was so mad at him and hurt. Yet my best girlfeiend just dumped her boyfriend for basically the same reason. Some guy she thought was hotter came along and she "wanted to try him out." Sometimes I think we are all monsters.
I think grown ups have the same problems with this too. I heard my oldest sister sobbing in her room because she had had a One night stand with a guy who dumped her the next day. She really liked him and was so mad at him and hurt. Yet my best girlfeiend just dumped her boyfriend for basically the same reason. Some guy she thought was hotter came along and she "wanted to try him out." Sometimes I think we are all monsters.