Raidergirl7
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My husband and I are considering swinging with some friends of ours. We have been good friends with this couple for a few years. We regularly get together for drinks. Occasionally things get crazy. We have played strip poker and other various strip games but that's as far as it has ever gone. Now the idea of swinging has come into the mix. I went for drinks with this coupe last night(my husband was working late) and they both agreed that they would be up for it. I talked to my husband about it and he would be up for it as well. We obviously would set some ground rules.
It is fun to talk about but I am not sure if we should do it. I am not the jealous type at all. The idea of my husband having sex with someone else does not upset me or make me feel threatened. I know at the end of the night he is mine. I really like the other husband but I would never want to have a relationship with him. We all feel that way about our potential partner. We love each other to pieces but I am happy with my husband and have no plans to leave him.
It's just that once you go there you can't go back. But I know some people have very successful marriages and swing. And this couple is one that we have already "pushed with envelope" with in regards to other sexual things. We have all seen each other naked before and we talk about absolutely everything.
Opinions!!
It is fun to talk about but I am not sure if we should do it. I am not the jealous type at all. The idea of my husband having sex with someone else does not upset me or make me feel threatened. I know at the end of the night he is mine. I really like the other husband but I would never want to have a relationship with him. We all feel that way about our potential partner. We love each other to pieces but I am happy with my husband and have no plans to leave him.
It's just that once you go there you can't go back. But I know some people have very successful marriages and swing. And this couple is one that we have already "pushed with envelope" with in regards to other sexual things. We have all seen each other naked before and we talk about absolutely everything.
Opinions!!