swimming party/chatting up a girl?

[Mike]

hi i'm 16, tomorrow I'm going to a swimming party, and there's a girl going there who I know I won't see for a while, and I'd like to see her another time because i like her , but, i've got a bit of a fat gut but i play rugby, do a lot of cycling and i eat healthily, but do you think having a bit of a belly would put someone off you?

i know it mite be a bit of a weird place to chat with someone, but i aint gunna see her for ages and in that time she could get a boyfriend.

if you think havin a bit of a belly could put someone off, then would it be weird or not if i just crossed my arms and spoke to her or not?

I'm happy how I am and want to stay the same size, but, its just the first impression

cheers
sorry, i aint wearing a top whilst swimming
i'm a bit muscley, broad and chubby. people said i've got a cute face so hopefully that'll be alright :\ lol, and i'm quite funny and caring

 

[Nay]

Never try to chat up someone with your arms crossed.
Wear a baggy shirt so it doesn't show.

Personally it would put me up but you are young and are still growing taller, so you shouldn't feel self consious about it.
People's personalities however make up the decision for me whether that person is attractive or not.

 

[eliza]

no way a belly wouldn't put me off! you need to charm her with your personality and even if you aren't confident just be yourself and the rest will follow hopefully good luck swimming! x