Survey: Do I have the right idea or not?

J

Just Me

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Warning: This is a a question related to dating...you don't have to answer if you don't want to. lol :)

My friend Kelly and I are having an argument about a guy named Jake.

I was friends with Jake. Jake and I liked each other but he hadn't asked me out, and I really liked him but was too nervous to ask him out. I'm pretty shy. :( Another guy, Paul, asked me out and now we are together. Right after I started seeing Paul, Jake suddenly dropped out of sight and I didn‘t see him again. I haven’t seen him since. It’s been several months. Jake is around, people have seen him. I just haven’t seen him at all. Before I started going out with Paul, Jake and I had been hanging out more often. He got flirty and hung out with me and my friends more. Right around when I started seeing Paul, I didn't see him anymore.
My friend Kelly thinks Jake really liked me and probably wanted to ask me out, and when I started seeing Paul, he got upset or hurt and now he’s staying away.
I don't know...I think he doesn’t like me that much and doesn’t care what I do, and it must be a coincidence. I'm not comfortable calling and asking him.
Kelly thinks all the evidence basically says she's got the right idea.

Which one of us is right?
 
might be both...

he might just be busy
or liked you and just feels shitty he didnt ask you first
 
i think your friend is right (sorry)...it seems too much of a coincidence that he would "disappear" once you started going out with Paul...which i don't really understand in the first place, when you say you really liked Jake. were you just sick of waiting for him? (i understand that feeling) from what you have said, i don't think Jake will come around again until he hears that you and Paul break up. hope this helps!! =}
 
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