im an 18 year old guy..My best friend,who's also my age,told me that he's been havin intimate activities with his 12 yr old neighbor..now, obviously, this news was pretty revolting to me, and kinda disturbing too..But then i know he is not that kind of a paedophilic jerk off, and there's got to be a reason behind this act of his...Then he explained..The girl used to regularly visit his house, chatting wid him & his family, watching tv with them, etc.. as the girl's and his family are friends..Then when she became arnd 11 yrs old(he was 17 at d time), he noticed her wearing short skimpy outfitsThis kinda got my friend excited, and eventually they both started getting slightly intimate..First, for a longtime, it was only hugs & kisses on d cheeks...and then overtime they started kissing and caressing...And he never forced her or anythin, she used to kiss him back with d same passion as his ..she actually used to like it..They do this in private behind doors,etc.. During her visitsThis lasted for a few months..then, he left d country to go abroad for college, & he thought that wht he was doin was somwhat close to paedophilia.. & he wud not do it again...Then when he returned home from college after a year, for vacations. he assumed that d girl must hav 4gotten abt d stuff they did before, as she was very young..Then One day,she came for her usual visits 2 his house,, and when they were alone, started caressing him on her own,... Also saying that she missed him a lot and she was trying to kiss him whenever possible ...and they started kissing again now..the amazing thing is, they still regard each oder as brother-sister, respect each oder as siblings, & both hav an undrstanding to keep it private...& he has told me repeatedly dat its never ever gonna go beyond d usual kissing or caressing
and girl also knows that they are doing wrong, but she still likes doing it..
he also told he wud stop this once she starts dating guys wen she bcums 15-16 yrs old..
Now, is this ok?
and girl also knows that they are doing wrong, but she still likes doing it..
he also told he wud stop this once she starts dating guys wen she bcums 15-16 yrs old..
Now, is this ok?