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One time when my boyfriend and I had signed up for evening dance lessons in the University district, my boyfriend never came by to pick me up for the class. Later that night I found out he was with one of his friends all day. they were in the neighbohood of the dance classes. He had called me but I wasn't quite home from work yet(5 min later). He assumed I had forgotten or was driving myself. Anyway, his friend took my place. Being two men, they got to dance with all the single women.
When he got home, I finally got him on the phone. he told me what happened on his side of the story and I told him my side of the story. He had a blast that night! I did not! :no:
 
Stop hanging out with these people. I don't know about you, but for me, life is too short to put up with people you don't necessarily need to put up with. I can understand work situations where you wait around for a client multiple times in hopes of getting some business. But when they are supposed to be your friends, this does not even meet basic requirements.
 
You have the right to be pissed off about it :hug: and they shouldn't be callin you bitchy, its just rude
 
That's happened to me before but only once and I never made another date with the guy who did that.

It's rude and cruel to let anyone down like that. And it's not the sort of thing you expect from true friends either. It definitely should NOT happen multiple times. That's just awful! :hug:
 
How do you deal with being stood up when you have set up a date to meet with someone and they don't show up with no explanation what-so-ever?

Usually, I wouldn't mind if they gave me a call saying they can't make it and something came up (they don't really need to go in to detail). But...well...I don't know. These days it's been a trend of people wanting to set up a date to hang out and totally ditch it with no phone call or text on that very day.

I know I shouldn't be mad about it but I can't help it especially if I take the time to actually get there and wait around for hours. And half of the time I ask why they haven't told me they couldn't make it, they consider me being bitchy.

I don't know, just this whole trend of people wanting to get together to hang out with me and just ditch altogether has been going on lately. Sometimes I wonder if I should start my own business with that service. Hey, I could be a self-made millionaire at that point.
 
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