Stolen iPhone need advice on how to deal with?

[MARIA M]

i am not racist but damn man its hard not to be. i work my ass off and i got an ipod and then a black kid stole it. then i got an iphone and two black kids stole it. you know. i bust my ass in a restaurant to get what i want after supporting my family. the this shit happens. one of my best friends for like seven years is black and he is doing very well for himself. he says bad things and black people. its hard because of my frustration. but man how does someone not stereotype. i feel like i should watch myself around black people even though i know that they are not all bad. the thieves dont speak for all of them. help. advice