Chantel Lee
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my bestfriend whos a girl shes 18 broke up with her bf of almost 2 yrs in the beggining of nov around there because she didnt feel it with him anymore and just wanted to be friends with him and was only with him for her fake id. she had a thing with this guy for about 2 months (he hurt her so thats over) and the whole time she was single up until last friday she kept saying how she doesnt wanna relationship for a long time and just wants to be single. then she started dating her ex again grr, after she said how she never wants to get back together with him and that they're just friends, shes not in love with him anymore by the way and just loves him kinda. i asked her why shes dating him and she said she doesnt even know, i told her shes just lonely and depressed. i was talking to my best guy friend and he told her how she just doesnt wanna be alone and depressed but anyways, she agreed when i said shes just lonely and depressed & i told her to not use a guy (she says shes not) cuz shes feeling lonely and depressed and she said "i know but honesty guys are just gonna end up hurting me so if im dating i wont get myself into that u know" then i told her that thats life ur gonna get hurt sometimes but u cant always have her ex (now ur bf) to run to so no guy will hurt her & i said shes not even in love with him or anything anymore and she said " yea i know i do love him kinda but i know i can feel more with (the guy she had a thing with) because when she had sex with him she felt something she hasnt felt since but it seems like all guys i truley end up falling for will just hurt me" me and my best guy friend think shes just using him but doesnt realize it like that yet and he said shes just using him as a crutch, they'll never be like how they used to be.
Just last wednesday he told me how shes sick of not being able to do what she wants anymore again (hes very controlling and possesive) and is prob gonna break up with him soon.
then i brought up to her last thrusday how shes sick of not being able to do what she wants anymore? and shes like "yesss! fml" I told her how nothings gonna change and she was like "i know f u c k haha" then i told her that she shouldnt have gotten herself into and then tells me "i dont care i can end it anytime its not like him stuck with him"
i think shes just using him to cope with her depression and doesnt wanna be alone....because thats what it really seems like, even my other bff thinks that and hes very smart, he has lots of experience.
before they started dating again, she told me how she didnt wanna relationship for a really long time and doesnt want to get attached to anyone and how she doesnt want to date at all and just needs to get used to being alone. thats why its stupid that shes with him
Just yesterday she told me how she doesnt know what to do with the situation because she doesnt like him in that way. and today she told me shes not attracted to him, and he tries kissing her and she doesnt want to sometimes, and he held her hand today when we were sitting down for a sec or two then took her hand away.
Just last wednesday he told me how shes sick of not being able to do what she wants anymore again (hes very controlling and possesive) and is prob gonna break up with him soon.
then i brought up to her last thrusday how shes sick of not being able to do what she wants anymore? and shes like "yesss! fml" I told her how nothings gonna change and she was like "i know f u c k haha" then i told her that she shouldnt have gotten herself into and then tells me "i dont care i can end it anytime its not like him stuck with him"
i think shes just using him to cope with her depression and doesnt wanna be alone....because thats what it really seems like, even my other bff thinks that and hes very smart, he has lots of experience.
before they started dating again, she told me how she didnt wanna relationship for a really long time and doesnt want to get attached to anyone and how she doesnt want to date at all and just needs to get used to being alone. thats why its stupid that shes with him
Just yesterday she told me how she doesnt know what to do with the situation because she doesnt like him in that way. and today she told me shes not attracted to him, and he tries kissing her and she doesnt want to sometimes, and he held her hand today when we were sitting down for a sec or two then took her hand away.