ive recently found out our son has been trying to cash in tuition money for what i suspect is a new motorcycle, he avoids us and since this was paid in cash, the college will not refund us the money and will only deposit funds to his name, everyone seems to tell me and my wife that we have no options but we're getting shammed, what can be done in order to fix this with the college? is there a special position of authority i can talk to that handles brat cases like this? hes been a good boy so we trusted him but lately we dont know whats gotten into him, hes simply not himself by the way this is not grant or financial money( my wife and i are above the cutoff line)