Katie Blogger
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I grew up with three brothers and I am the only daughter. My mom seems to be controlled by my dad and two of my brothers, my other brother is really quiet. I watched every single relationship being controlled by the guys (my family and two best friends, ALL unhappy)....the girl being put down....clean, cook, babysit....all of it..the guys always go out without asking, the girls, don't think of it without bringing the kids...1950?....and when there is a problem and one of my sister-in-laws finally steps up and actually takes a stand and gets a girls night..in my parents eyes she was wrong...the girl is always wrong....the guy is always right....this is in every relationship I see in my family and close friends....few friends I see what life could be like happy and in a healthy relationships.... I have dates but I have no trust....I have my own house and a good job...I support myself completely....but because I don't have a boyfriend....the reason why cause I refuse to be treated how my whole life I have seen girls treated...But now everyone says...Oh she must be a gay"....Am I cause I want control over my own life, because I have my own house and a great job but never can hold a relationship because I like my own rules...I am 30........I am fed up with the family views!