Micky James
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Ok so there's this girl that is funny and outgoing and loves to make jokes but the majority of her classmates don't like her because she has an attitude 90% of the time
She never noticed me and in order to get her attention I tried annoying her; it worked, she started to make funny insults/comments only to me. The entire year was our antagonism against each other and it was fun. Then I made a freshman gf near the end of Junior year. Suddenly, Nicky ignored me, or it seemed like she tried to; some days she would completely disregard me. Then on other days she would go back to her old self. Sometimes I look at her, both when I'm with and without my gf. On both instances, she just stares at me angrily.
Then Homecoming came about. During the dance, one of my friends [let's call him Bob] is very emo. He came only out of pity of his gf and sulked the entire dance. Literally, he just sat outside of the dance floor. Nicky sat with him.
She looks up. I wink at her. She glares at me.
But before either of us say anything Bob says: "How're the freshman?" (he meant my gf but I didn't realize it then.)
I look at him but don't respond, and then I turn back to stare at her.
Nicky: "I'm gonna ask the same question he just asked."
Me: "What was that? I didn't hear it."
Bob: "How're the freshman?"
Me: "I didn't hear that."
Nicky: "Then you're death and go to Hell." I don't remember much of the night after that but basically, it ended with Nicky throwing her shoe at me.
It was when she kept ignoring me and when I missed her frank jokes that I realized I liked her. I was single by then so it shouldn't have been a problem right?
Wrong.
Now situations are like:
Day A [her regular self]: I'm talking about who to vote for senior awards. She'll run down the hallway and steal the paper from my hands. I smile and try to take it away from her [she is laughing too btw]; I hug her from behind and tickle her. She laughs and says she'll give it back personally tomorrow. I let her go.
Day B [not her regular self]: Day after A. From the start, I'm looking for her out of the corner of my eye. Finally, after first period I hear someone calling her name and I turn around in the direction fast as lightning and smile at her. Calling: "Nicky, where's my paper?"
As soon as she see's me her expression turns horrified like she's seen a ghost and she runs down the hallway the other direction. I'm confused and shout jokingly: "Oh sure, run away like you always do." But she doesn't stop. Second period I go to my locker and my friend who has the locker next to me gives me back the sheet saying that Nicky asked him to give it to me.
Things keep going on like this. One day she's nice and the next she's all weird and frightful.
Does she want me or not? She once said, I recall vaguely, that she wanted revenge for "the Hell" I put her through junior year but I put it off as another one of her jokes. Now, I'm not too sure, was it all a game for her to get my attention and then reject me? I'm going crazy here not knowing.
Any advice on what to do?
She never noticed me and in order to get her attention I tried annoying her; it worked, she started to make funny insults/comments only to me. The entire year was our antagonism against each other and it was fun. Then I made a freshman gf near the end of Junior year. Suddenly, Nicky ignored me, or it seemed like she tried to; some days she would completely disregard me. Then on other days she would go back to her old self. Sometimes I look at her, both when I'm with and without my gf. On both instances, she just stares at me angrily.
Then Homecoming came about. During the dance, one of my friends [let's call him Bob] is very emo. He came only out of pity of his gf and sulked the entire dance. Literally, he just sat outside of the dance floor. Nicky sat with him.
She looks up. I wink at her. She glares at me.
But before either of us say anything Bob says: "How're the freshman?" (he meant my gf but I didn't realize it then.)
I look at him but don't respond, and then I turn back to stare at her.
Nicky: "I'm gonna ask the same question he just asked."
Me: "What was that? I didn't hear it."
Bob: "How're the freshman?"
Me: "I didn't hear that."
Nicky: "Then you're death and go to Hell." I don't remember much of the night after that but basically, it ended with Nicky throwing her shoe at me.
It was when she kept ignoring me and when I missed her frank jokes that I realized I liked her. I was single by then so it shouldn't have been a problem right?
Wrong.
Now situations are like:
Day A [her regular self]: I'm talking about who to vote for senior awards. She'll run down the hallway and steal the paper from my hands. I smile and try to take it away from her [she is laughing too btw]; I hug her from behind and tickle her. She laughs and says she'll give it back personally tomorrow. I let her go.
Day B [not her regular self]: Day after A. From the start, I'm looking for her out of the corner of my eye. Finally, after first period I hear someone calling her name and I turn around in the direction fast as lightning and smile at her. Calling: "Nicky, where's my paper?"
As soon as she see's me her expression turns horrified like she's seen a ghost and she runs down the hallway the other direction. I'm confused and shout jokingly: "Oh sure, run away like you always do." But she doesn't stop. Second period I go to my locker and my friend who has the locker next to me gives me back the sheet saying that Nicky asked him to give it to me.
Things keep going on like this. One day she's nice and the next she's all weird and frightful.
Does she want me or not? She once said, I recall vaguely, that she wanted revenge for "the Hell" I put her through junior year but I put it off as another one of her jokes. Now, I'm not too sure, was it all a game for her to get my attention and then reject me? I'm going crazy here not knowing.
Any advice on what to do?