rottenlemon
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Last night I slept over at my boyfriend's place. He lives in an apartment. In the middle of the night around the time when people just finished partying, some girl suddenly rang his doorbell like crazy, and she banged on the door saying "open the door! don't you dare not opening the door! simon! open the door"..... she did that for like 5 friggin minutes before leaving. And Simon is not my boyfriend's name, and he doesnt' know anyone by that name.
We looked through the peep hole and my bf didn't know the crazy b*tch. And like 5 mins later, the crazy b*tch returned, more furiously she continued to bang on the door and ring the bell and scream for simon. After like 5mins of that she left. We called security and screamed at them for letting strangers into the building in the middle of the night.
My boyfriend is very goodlooking, he always has girls chasing after him, and the places he goes to (clubs, parties), everybody knows his name. So I have ruled out the possibility of him using a fake name (Simon) to hit on girls.
But a few months ago, he had this rich girl chasing after him, and she hired someone to spy on him and follow him around. After he told her to go away one night, in the middle of the night someone came ringing our bell. That person covered the peephole so we can't see who it was, but we were pretty sure this person was sent by that rich girl who was chasing after him. She denied it of course, but she left him alone after that incident.
Awesome security team we have in this apartment.........
So these kind of things have happened before.....
What's going on??? What did my bf do?? Did she get the wrong house?? Did my bf cheat? I am so confused and scared! We've been together for 5 years and are gonna get married in a year. We're both in our late 20s. And obviously he's looking for a new apartment.
I can't say that i have absolutely no doubt that he's faithful to me, but the part of me that believes in his innocence is more convincing than the part of me that doubts his faithfulness. Com'on, nobody trusts another person 100%. Please spare me with that "if you don't trust him then you should break up" crap. Everybody has doubts.
I've actually cheated on him, admitted to him, we decided to stay together to work things out. We've had some very very good times, and some very VERY VERY bad times, but we've stuck together and we're doing great now. We've worked soooooo hard and fought so hard to stay together. But then this happens.....what's going on??
We don't open our door to drunken strangers that ring our bell in the middle of the night. We didn't even want to make a noise. We were scared, in bed, in the middle of the night.
We looked through the peep hole and my bf didn't know the crazy b*tch. And like 5 mins later, the crazy b*tch returned, more furiously she continued to bang on the door and ring the bell and scream for simon. After like 5mins of that she left. We called security and screamed at them for letting strangers into the building in the middle of the night.
My boyfriend is very goodlooking, he always has girls chasing after him, and the places he goes to (clubs, parties), everybody knows his name. So I have ruled out the possibility of him using a fake name (Simon) to hit on girls.
But a few months ago, he had this rich girl chasing after him, and she hired someone to spy on him and follow him around. After he told her to go away one night, in the middle of the night someone came ringing our bell. That person covered the peephole so we can't see who it was, but we were pretty sure this person was sent by that rich girl who was chasing after him. She denied it of course, but she left him alone after that incident.
Awesome security team we have in this apartment.........
So these kind of things have happened before.....
What's going on??? What did my bf do?? Did she get the wrong house?? Did my bf cheat? I am so confused and scared! We've been together for 5 years and are gonna get married in a year. We're both in our late 20s. And obviously he's looking for a new apartment.
I can't say that i have absolutely no doubt that he's faithful to me, but the part of me that believes in his innocence is more convincing than the part of me that doubts his faithfulness. Com'on, nobody trusts another person 100%. Please spare me with that "if you don't trust him then you should break up" crap. Everybody has doubts.
I've actually cheated on him, admitted to him, we decided to stay together to work things out. We've had some very very good times, and some very VERY VERY bad times, but we've stuck together and we're doing great now. We've worked soooooo hard and fought so hard to stay together. But then this happens.....what's going on??
We don't open our door to drunken strangers that ring our bell in the middle of the night. We didn't even want to make a noise. We were scared, in bed, in the middle of the night.