Some advice on lesbian etiquette: had sex with my new girlfriend, but it's really...

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...hairy "down there" Advice!? So, I feel so cruel asking, but what - if anything - should I do about this?
It's really, really hairy down there and I don't want her to do anything extreme like shave/wax, but a trim is (in my humble opinion) much needed.
We've been dating a few months and I don't want to ask her to change anything about her person because that's not acceptable or polite-- besides, I think I might be falling for her in a big way!
It's like being stuck between a rock and a hard place; I like her, but the hair is such a turn-off.
Please help.
 
just ask her about it. before you two decide to have sex again. say, hey honey, have you thought about trimming? I think it would be much better for us if you did. more pleasure for you! and see what she says. I'm sure she won't take it the wrong way. It's not your fault, and honesty (in the kind way) is the best etiquette.
 
u can tell her and if she loves u ; she won't be offended. but bringit up like.. hey what wouldu do if i said... but im only kidding unless u wanted tio
 
Just tell her it would be appreciated if she did a little grooming down there. it really isnt that big of deal.
 
Maybe one day bring it up lightly in conversation, like,
"Hey, a trim is a nice thing." But make sure to tell her you're not asking her to change herself in anyway, it's all up to her. But tell her you'd think it'd be really sexy or something if she shaved. Don't be rude about it, just be really playful and sweet.
Hope I helped!
 
Politely begin to talk to her and slip in the question about it. Ask her if she could trim it a bit. That shouldn't offend her.
 
If you feel like you really like her, then be honest with her. It's better than simply being awkward around her and she'll think you have some kind of serious problem with her, and it'll cause friction between the two of you.
 
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