SIGH. There's so much drama among my group of friends that it's not even relaxing or fun to hang out with them sometimes anymore.
There's this girl that hates me (none of us really have any idea why. She denies it but she hates me, it's obvious by the way she acts.). I really had no problem with her until she tried to turn my friends against me. She literally told people not to talk to me.
It just so happens that my best friend liked her for 2 years straight, and has had a lot of trouble getting over her (he's still not completely over her). She is very manipulative, and apparently, she has about 5 boys in her "trap" that she alternately seduces and dumps. They keep coming back. So, since all the boys like her, all the girls try to be exactly like her (dress, walk, and talk like her) so she has some very primitive form of power over almost all the girls in our group.
Normally, somebody like this, I would not associate with. But my best friend likes/liked her and she just seems to turn up everywhere we go. Tonight there were like 10 people at my friend's house, and she was there. Another good friend of mine is slowly falling into her "trap", despite our warnings, and of course they were all over each other. My best friend who still kind of likes her was there too, but that was just part of the problem...
A girl that he has started to like (which is good for him since this girl isn't manipulative and is a cool person) was there too, of course. So that was obviously high-tension. Then, there was another couple that has become sort of an "item", but they've been fighting and the girl keeps saying "I want to break up with him, but he's really hot." The guy is kind of an asshole, and whenever the girl is saying something he disagrees with, he kisses her so she'll shut up.
At school today, I found out that a girl that used to like me is now dating one of my good friends. I know the girl pretty well, and she is, flatly, a manipulative immature little girl, who will use my friend and dump him. It happens to people all the time, but it's espescially harsh with my friend because he is one of the only kids who doesn't do drugs, wants to wait until marriage before having sex, refuses to join a gang, and is overall concerned with being a good guy. She will go to a dance with him, seduce him into breaking his principles so she can bang him, and dump him.
And then there's my personal problems...
I am fresh off of an exceptionally rough break-up. I don't want, nor do I really have much time to spend on (due to insane courseloads and extracurricular activities), a girlfriend. So, when I was walking out of a class today, some girl took a little notepad out of my backpack, scribbled something, and put it back. I read it in my next period and it said "I love you. Call me." This girl used to like me, and I didn't like her (I still don't) but I kind of hooked up with her halfway on accident. Now she apparently loves me.
That girl's best friend keeps hitting on me.
A girl that I really used to like, but who had a boyfriend, broke up with her boyfriend over summer and now always wants a hug and a kiss when I see her. She asked me to go to the movies with her, which I honestly have no time for, but I could tell she thought I was just passing her off. Great.
A hot girl that I don't know very well got kind of drunk, told me she loved me (and she "really means it"), and tried to kiss me. Great.
Some girl that I like very much, as a friend, keeps trying to get a little too buddy-buddy with me. :thumbsdn:
It's just fucking fantastic. All these girls that I would normally probably pursue a relationship with, are acting like they're into me, and I'm hung up on a bullshit breakup from three weeks ago.
I just want to play on a damn swingset like when I was little!
There's this girl that hates me (none of us really have any idea why. She denies it but she hates me, it's obvious by the way she acts.). I really had no problem with her until she tried to turn my friends against me. She literally told people not to talk to me.
It just so happens that my best friend liked her for 2 years straight, and has had a lot of trouble getting over her (he's still not completely over her). She is very manipulative, and apparently, she has about 5 boys in her "trap" that she alternately seduces and dumps. They keep coming back. So, since all the boys like her, all the girls try to be exactly like her (dress, walk, and talk like her) so she has some very primitive form of power over almost all the girls in our group.
Normally, somebody like this, I would not associate with. But my best friend likes/liked her and she just seems to turn up everywhere we go. Tonight there were like 10 people at my friend's house, and she was there. Another good friend of mine is slowly falling into her "trap", despite our warnings, and of course they were all over each other. My best friend who still kind of likes her was there too, but that was just part of the problem...
A girl that he has started to like (which is good for him since this girl isn't manipulative and is a cool person) was there too, of course. So that was obviously high-tension. Then, there was another couple that has become sort of an "item", but they've been fighting and the girl keeps saying "I want to break up with him, but he's really hot." The guy is kind of an asshole, and whenever the girl is saying something he disagrees with, he kisses her so she'll shut up.
At school today, I found out that a girl that used to like me is now dating one of my good friends. I know the girl pretty well, and she is, flatly, a manipulative immature little girl, who will use my friend and dump him. It happens to people all the time, but it's espescially harsh with my friend because he is one of the only kids who doesn't do drugs, wants to wait until marriage before having sex, refuses to join a gang, and is overall concerned with being a good guy. She will go to a dance with him, seduce him into breaking his principles so she can bang him, and dump him.
And then there's my personal problems...
I am fresh off of an exceptionally rough break-up. I don't want, nor do I really have much time to spend on (due to insane courseloads and extracurricular activities), a girlfriend. So, when I was walking out of a class today, some girl took a little notepad out of my backpack, scribbled something, and put it back. I read it in my next period and it said "I love you. Call me." This girl used to like me, and I didn't like her (I still don't) but I kind of hooked up with her halfway on accident. Now she apparently loves me.
That girl's best friend keeps hitting on me.
A girl that I really used to like, but who had a boyfriend, broke up with her boyfriend over summer and now always wants a hug and a kiss when I see her. She asked me to go to the movies with her, which I honestly have no time for, but I could tell she thought I was just passing her off. Great.
A hot girl that I don't know very well got kind of drunk, told me she loved me (and she "really means it"), and tried to kiss me. Great.
Some girl that I like very much, as a friend, keeps trying to get a little too buddy-buddy with me. :thumbsdn:
It's just fucking fantastic. All these girls that I would normally probably pursue a relationship with, are acting like they're into me, and I'm hung up on a bullshit breakup from three weeks ago.
I just want to play on a damn swingset like when I was little!
