So...I was wondering, when should you have sex?

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Nancy

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I'm definitely not a slut.
I know many are more promiscuous now a days and willing to sleep with one another without a problem.
but when is the RIGHT time to have sex. When you are in love right? and you KNOW you like them?
In my opinion;
if you have sex with someone you are dating(before you love each other), then you fall in love.
I dont think that love is real..

I think its more real when you fall in love, THEN have sex.

but when is the right time?
Its confuses me sometimes, because there are so many sluts, sometimes i think that i should be a bit more easy, but i know in my heart i shouldnt be....but since its all around, its kind of like an influence.
idk if this makes sense.
but whats everyones opinion
 
i wouldn't say that's true

me and my ex boyfriend had sex 4 months after we started dating (we weren't in love at that time) but we were both sure we wanted to do it.

i fell in love with him about a month or two after that night, and we continued dating for 4 more years, loving each other. we're no longer together, but we both know we still love each other very much. and we'll never forget because we were each other's firsts.

it's really more of a matter of knowing what's right and what's not. i don't know why, but i knew it felt right and that i was doing the right thing when it happened. i was comfortable with my decision, still am. no regrets. even though i was 13 at that time, but i know i was always mature for my age. you'd just know when is the "right" time. but even with a LITTLE bit of doubts or second thoughts, basically if you're questioning yourself, then you may have already answered your own question of if it's the "right time" yet.
 
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