SealedWithAKiss
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Usually, I'm the type of person that avoids confrontation. There are several reasons as to why, but I'll always avoid a disagreement with another person for the sake of keeping the peace. I like keeping things that way, I like keeping people content, and don't like making enemies. I'll often go out of my way for other people, and people are fast to take my kindness as weakness.
I'm becoming bored of people, quite essentially, taking the piss because they realise that I'm so passive that I wont react. The most recent example was a guy in a bar claiming I had knocked his drink over, when I clearly hadn't, and I ended up buying him another drink after he was fairly rude towards me.
The reason that I don't fight isn't because I can't. I'm a big enough guy. I weigh about 12 and a half stones which is fairly average, and I'm at 6 ft 2 or 190cm in height. I haven't been trained to fight, and haven't had much experience fighting, but I know that there's an aggressive little **** inside me just waiting to hit back at anybody foolish enough to try and take advantage again.
My problem is that it's not in my nature, so I want to change my nature, change my perception of violence so that I don't see it as a negative thing anymore. I believe that I could benefit from being able to not only defend myself, but be aggressive in a reasonable and controlled way.
I'm becoming bored of people, quite essentially, taking the piss because they realise that I'm so passive that I wont react. The most recent example was a guy in a bar claiming I had knocked his drink over, when I clearly hadn't, and I ended up buying him another drink after he was fairly rude towards me.
The reason that I don't fight isn't because I can't. I'm a big enough guy. I weigh about 12 and a half stones which is fairly average, and I'm at 6 ft 2 or 190cm in height. I haven't been trained to fight, and haven't had much experience fighting, but I know that there's an aggressive little **** inside me just waiting to hit back at anybody foolish enough to try and take advantage again.
My problem is that it's not in my nature, so I want to change my nature, change my perception of violence so that I don't see it as a negative thing anymore. I believe that I could benefit from being able to not only defend myself, but be aggressive in a reasonable and controlled way.