So here's a question for you

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May sound cheesey but I'll tell you something EXTREMELY important that I have had to learn. I have been through a lot and could very easily take the jaded, pissed attitude toward life. YOU HAVE to make the effort to find the "good" in people. It doesn't mean that you stumble upon a crackhead and find something "good" about them and hang out with them but I guarantee you, there is something good about them.

It's all about attitude. You should wake up everyday and as often as possible tell yourself "I will have a good day". Even if crap happens, find the good, it's possible and it will make you a much happier person. :happysad:
 
I do not believe it is "finding the good" as much as it is not letting the bad bother you so much. I mean good things tend to be taken for granted and easily dismissed most of the time unless it's a Thai fireman dressed up like spiderman saving an autistic kid from falling off the ledge of a building. The bad things we carry around and remember.
 
It's because as humans, we tend to live off of negativity. It's human nature.

According to Freud, we are all born evil. Perhaps he had a point with that. Technically, we are taught to be good, and society is what shapes us into who we are and what we are.
 
People are different to different people. SOmeone who is an unreliable thoughtless, selfish douche to you, is someone else's primo confidant.

You just gotta find some people you click with, people that you inspire to be there for you. Not because it's necessarily their nature, but because they care about you as a person enough to do that.
 
People are fucked up, and don't expect to go looking and find a nice one anytime in the near future, because chances are that won't happen. It's all up to fate and luck.
 
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