Sister with AVM

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So i have a sister who has an AVM just within the last 6 months diagnosed. She has had gama knife and is on keppra. She has had a serious change in her mood and personality! She is very nasty to my parents, she's happy one moment and than nasty the next! She quite honestly is very hard to talk to and she thinks were all telling her how to live her life! Her life is very stressful and I am wondering what to do, how to help her and why she's having such strong personality changes! Im very frustrated because she just had another seizure while on her medication and after treatment and weakness on her left side agian! She doesnt want to talk to a professional bc she thinks she can handle it, not true... So any suggestions or anyone know what I can do or what they have done with their similar situation?
 
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My guess is that your sister is either having a reaction to the Keppra or she is just trying to come to grips with her situation. She is not being nasty to be nasty, I think that she is going through a really hard time and is still trying to figure out how to deal with her situation. I am sure that you are all quite concern for her health and I can probably assume that your sister also knows that you are all concern and she most likely is feeling bad that she has put everybodys life into a tails spin because of her illness. I can also assume that she is very scared of her future and whether or not she has a future.
Unfortunately there is not much you can do but support her. It is very often hard to accept a persons bad behavior, however, if you put this behavior into context of the situation, than you may be able to figure out a way around the situation. Simply listening to her rant and raving and letting her get everything off her chest so to speak and then give her a great big hug and let her know that you are there for her--whether she is nice or nasty. Let her know that you will always be there for her and that if she neeRAB a shoulder to cry on or a sister with good listening skills, that you are available day or night.
Give your parents some extra hugs and also let yourself be hugged. Keep the communication open within the family and use each other to voice frustrations.
I do not believe there is a way for you to ask her doctor about the Keppra reaction unless your sister lets you speak to her doctor. You can gently mention that her emotions may be effective by the medication and she may want to speak with her doctor concerning the side effect and request a possible change in medication.
Your sister may also be suffering some temporary side effect of the surgery she had on her brain which may have disrupted the normal pathways that control emotions.

I am sorry your family is having such a hard time--it is never fun when a family meraber is sick and you are at a loss as to how to help this family meraber.
Please write back to let me know how you are all doing.
 
mullen1: What is AVM? She's on a seizure med. Keppra can cause rage. It's nickname is KeppRAGE. Watch out what she's eating with it, too. You can't eat grapefruit with it and you don't want to be mixing herbs with it either.

How old is she? Is she having female/menopausal problems? Hormones changes can make you go crazy too. I think she neeRAB to be watched to make sure she stays safe if she's having a seizure and is out of control. If she gets really out of control you might have to call for help and have her admitted to a facility that can deal with her.
 
922? an AVM is actuallly called an arteriovenous malformation(fed mostly by arteries like an aneurysm would be). there are various vascular malformations that one can be simply born with(usually brain and spinal cord), and some get created over years too. i had the venous fed counterpart to AVM inside my spinal cord called a cavernous hemangioma that i was born with. they just show up in some people.

i too think the med she is on should possibly be changed to something that will not impact her brain so severely. there just are sooo many different meRAB like the SSRIs adnd the anti S meRAB that can have in some people some vewry powerful and crazy side effects. my son had a bi polar disorder actually create itself from the use of prozac in an adolescent? it was over the top with what were actually manic episodes that i simply called anger explosions from hell. these meRAB just have the potential to actually change certain peoples personalitiys in ways that are really not something you would ever actually expect at all. i did NOT even KNOW my son on prozac and certainly not the child i had had before he was placed onto prozac.

but on the other hand, depending upon just what exacting area her AVM actually was, how large it was and if any other areas became damaged during her gamma, it could also be another part of the bigger problem too. do you know the exact area of her brain that held the AVM? was it completely removed or all actual bloodflow stopped to it feeding it by gamma or is some still there/active? how large was her AVM? i have never heard of them actually using the gamma knife on AVMs but they have been doing tons of research now vs before on the very best ways to try and get these lil suckers to either be removed or coiled like they do with an aneurysm so the bloodflow simply stops keeping these tangled masses of blood vessels continuaLLY fed and alive. once bloodflow TO them stops(or if can be removed), they usually will die off, but most are pretty entangled blood vessels so its very difficult to fully see all feeders in them or of them, ya know what i mean?

at the very least here, simply trying a totally different type of anti S med,esp since she DID have a break thru siezure, may be something to at least try and thwen see what happens with her personality? is there ANY possible way any one of your family could go with her to a follow up appt with her doc,i am assuming this is an actual neurosurgeon here? if she will not allow THAT, i would call her doc and report the changes in behavior to him. while in most cases, he cannot tell YOU anything, it does not mean that YOU cannot tell HIM things, esp the personality changes? this just IS stuff her doc neeRAB to know about, esp when this just IS her actual brain and changes in her thinking kind of situation? its kind of different than other medical situations that do NOT involve the brain at all?

but if she will nota allow anyone in, then you or someone in your family simply does need to either call her doc with a list of changes or symptoms she has been displaying handy and twell him, or she will not get this thru to him herself and things will not change. but the areas of her brain impacted also would play a part here too. and since he just knows the "where" of the vicinity her AVM was, he would more than likely be able to at least figure out of this is a brain and location reaction or possibly the keppra and may need a switch just to see if anything gets better. just get HIM the info so he simply knows.

but it also just DOES take time for the brain itself to get over the trauma of what it just went thru too, so do keep that in mind as well,K? hopefully things will normalize once you can get that doc in the loop and simply tell him what your familiy is seeing and hearing. ONLY because this is her brain that you are dealing with as far as telling her doc stuff? HIPPA gives a bit more wiggle room since anyone with any level of 'brain injury" or "trauma" WITH very definite personality changes usually is considered to be in a somewhat 'vulnerable" state? or in her case, a somewhat vulnerable adult, so things are not quite as strict in that sense? so DO TELL her doc this stuff since it just IS in her best interest here to do so. otherwise, how is her doc going to really 'know' any of this unless she even CAN/will tell him if she feels she is just "fine" inside her head but shes not? good luck with this,and i do hope that doc will at least try changing that med to a different one just to see if it could be med or her level of brain injury from where it was even attached there? and DO please keep us posted, FB
 
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