Okay, this is gonna be a long story.....here it goes!:
My sister and I usually get along, for the most part.
But there are times, (Usually once everyday) where things get a little complicated....
You see, my sister is a couple years younger than me. I've known her, her whole life. Over the years, she starts learning how to get her way out of sticky situations - the same way I did.
When I was younger, for some reason, I was an extremely unhappy child. I never got along with my mom, couldn't stand to be around my siblings, I would be very possessive of my things...but after about a year of that, and I moved in with my dad, it all stopped; my little sister moved into my dad's as well.
I know my sister very well. I know the ulterior motives behind the words she speaks. I know what she REALLY wants, when she lies. I know when she's being real, and when she's being fake, I'm an EXTREMELY observant person when it comes to personalities, and I've been with my sister ever since she was born, I got to know her a little
She starts lying: (people hitting her, saying stuff that they didn't, ect...)
She Doesn't Listen:
When I need space from her, I'll go on the computer, go in a different room, take a walk somewhere....and I'll tell her, to leave me alone. Does she listen? Nope. She'll sit at the chair, RIGHT next to me when I'm on the computer, and start reading a book aloud. WHen I go on a walk does she stay home? Nope. She comes with, no Matter HOW much I tell her to stay home. Do get where I'm going with this?
She purposely annoys me:
Many people tell me to just ignore her, I do.....and that makes it worse. She'll sit in my ears, for HOURS at a time, doing and saying stuff that annoys me. Do I say anything? No, I don't, completely silent. After about and hour and a half of that.....I break down! I scream, and I get SO close to punching her in the face! I'm a VERY non-violent person, so you know how bad it has to get....
And the big part of this.........is the fact that she's 9 years old.
She's getting SO bad! She thinks that just because I won't hit her, that she can mess with me all she wants to.
PLEASE help me! I don't know what to do anymore....
My sister and I usually get along, for the most part.
But there are times, (Usually once everyday) where things get a little complicated....
You see, my sister is a couple years younger than me. I've known her, her whole life. Over the years, she starts learning how to get her way out of sticky situations - the same way I did.
When I was younger, for some reason, I was an extremely unhappy child. I never got along with my mom, couldn't stand to be around my siblings, I would be very possessive of my things...but after about a year of that, and I moved in with my dad, it all stopped; my little sister moved into my dad's as well.
I know my sister very well. I know the ulterior motives behind the words she speaks. I know what she REALLY wants, when she lies. I know when she's being real, and when she's being fake, I'm an EXTREMELY observant person when it comes to personalities, and I've been with my sister ever since she was born, I got to know her a little
She starts lying: (people hitting her, saying stuff that they didn't, ect...)
She Doesn't Listen:
When I need space from her, I'll go on the computer, go in a different room, take a walk somewhere....and I'll tell her, to leave me alone. Does she listen? Nope. She'll sit at the chair, RIGHT next to me when I'm on the computer, and start reading a book aloud. WHen I go on a walk does she stay home? Nope. She comes with, no Matter HOW much I tell her to stay home. Do get where I'm going with this?
She purposely annoys me:
Many people tell me to just ignore her, I do.....and that makes it worse. She'll sit in my ears, for HOURS at a time, doing and saying stuff that annoys me. Do I say anything? No, I don't, completely silent. After about and hour and a half of that.....I break down! I scream, and I get SO close to punching her in the face! I'm a VERY non-violent person, so you know how bad it has to get....
And the big part of this.........is the fact that she's 9 years old.
She's getting SO bad! She thinks that just because I won't hit her, that she can mess with me all she wants to.
PLEASE help me! I don't know what to do anymore....