Didn't read anything but the first thread.
Buuut...FUCK IT. Don't stress about finding a relationship. My last one came randomly. I was just chillin' at a local concert by myself, next thing I know I'm talking to this fine ass girl, then I'm out to eat with her, and a about a week later...I'm dating her. Most random shit ever. She ended up being a liar and I think a little crazy...but damn, she was hot. Ha ha!
Don't stress about finding someone. Relax. Being single is good fun. Don't stress it.